Articles on “Being a Man”

That voice inside my head that says “Just give up, you’ve been trying this shit for the past 8 years, and where are you now? It was a nice run, you gave it your best, but maybe you should just plug back into the matrix. You’ve been ‘this close’ for years, maybe this isn’t meant to be.” […]

struggle-risk-success-journeyCan we be honest for a second here folks? I know many of you are on a similar path as me, and I just have to take a step back and illustrate how courageous, crazy, and out of our minds we all are. And the truth is, most of us will NOT reach insanely high levels of success, influence, and prosperity (AKA […]

unwanted-be-a-loserHot damn was I fucked up. Where I am at now – compared to where I was a decade ago – is really hitting me. I’m writing my “story” of how I got to be where I am today for my marketing, and am watching the patterns of my life unfold in slow-motion retrospect. Despite the exorbitant amounts of therapy I’ve […]

Have you ever struggled in life, and wondered if life was really supposed to be hard? Maybe you’ve also heard how life should be easy and effortless. Wait, huh… what’s the deal? Do we have to struggle, or can life flow smoothly? As my mom would say “make up my mind!” If so, how do […]

failure-success-show-up-polymanIt doesn’t matter if you win, get rejected, or get hurt. Life is about showing up. While you’ll never fail if you never try, you’re also guaranteed to never win. Would you bail on working out if your trainer didn’t come? Would you still enjoy a dinner if your date flaked? Would you still make music […]

What if there was a sexual philosophy that brought together all the schools of thought, and provided you with an empowering way to have the most passionate, fulfilling, spiritual, dirty, sexy, kinky, and liberating sex possible? How would your entire life change if you were able to conquer your fears, overcome your insecurities, release your shame […]

Sometimes it’s better not to try and “make something” out of everything. A few weeks ago I went out to lunch at a trendy health food cafe which I frequent here in California. As I made my way around to find a table to dine at, I saw a super cute girl eating at a huge table by herself. Also about to occupy a 4 […]

Over the weekend I had a visit with a new “friend” and found an unexpected opportunity to grow. To put into practice, well, a practice which I’ve been meaning to. This jaunt was with somebody I just met, so I was taking a chance to travel down to stay with them for a couple days – I’m always one for  spontaneous adventure. Unfortunately, this […]

Unlike myself, and perhaps many adults, the love of a young child is unconditional. The only reason it needs to love you, is because it does. An infant is so close to the source of its creation, that all it remembers is pure love; this is why we can only see innocence and joy in a baby’s […]

Yes, thatI recently have had a little fun with Pitnerest, and assembled a cast of graphical fashion and style guides for us men that are simple, short, and stylish. Not your typical inspirational or deep post from me, however I’ve found these graphics great guides to understanding a very touchy and confusing world of fashion. This information is timeless, […]

The other day I had a fascinating epiphany about the correlation between being a powerful alpha male/masculinity and being vulnerable. It actually reminded me of my foray into doing Polyman TV videos, and my second episode on “A Lesson in Vulnerability”. This aspect, being the tender and less glamourous side of the masculine discussion, rarely gets any attention […]

This is one my most darkest and vulnerable posts I’ve ever written. It exposes all of my current flaws and failures that I’m afraid to even admit, even though I know better. This is obviously a once or twice in a lifetime post, as the issues I’m about to share pale in comparison to all the good things […]

Hot Chicks with DouchebagsThe real reason why women date assholes and jerks, stay in abusive relationships, and what traits these men have that excite women so much more than nice guys. Also, what you can do right now as a nice guy to attract more women.

This Polyman TV episode is a review and basic overview of what a Polyman is and where the word came from. I talk about why I came up with the word and why becoming a polyman is important to me, as well as the purpose of this blog and video series aka the whole Polyman Project. While the original article […]

20110909-011323.jpgWilliam Pryor Letchworth was a man of character; following some of his simple rules of conduct will aid you in following your own principles.

There are the 23 biggest lessons I've learned while I was 23. Everything from spiritual, to health, to political, to sex, drugs, yoga, and modeling - there's something here everyone can learn from and relate to.

Does your desire come from need or want?The power of desire coming from a place of strength, and how the difference between "want" and "need" can take the abundance of your desires to new heights. Relationships based in mutual options and want are more satisfying than those in need.

10 Secret Sex Tips for Becoming an Excellent Lover10 secret sex tips on how to enlighten your sex life to become a better lover and man – one that women will remark about. These tips are real, quality concepts you can apply to your life – rather than quick fixes and techniques found in most magazines or "how to drive your woman crazy in bed" lists.

Just Bee Yourself - Disney's AladdinWhy just "being yourself" sucks, and is the worst advice ever. Why people even say this and how to tell the people who give crappy "be yourself" advice – and those that give epic, great advice – apart.

Don Juan DeMarcoDon Juan DeMarco is the master of loving and seducing women. The way he talks and behaves communicates his understanding of women and desire to ignite their soul with passion, which is apparent in these 7 quotes.

Da Vinci - Vitruve Luc ViatourThe definitive answer to the question: "what is a polyman?" This is the true origin of the word 'polyman'; including inspiration, what it means, and where it comes from (etymology). It describes why so many guys don't know how to be a real man, and how this rare breed of man is different.