The Polyman Making The Best Men, Better Tue, 20 Mar 2018 21:01:29 +0000 en-US hourly 1 End of Blog Fri, 20 Mar 2015 21:00:27 +0000 It Tells Me To Give Up, But I Can’t – This Is My Plea To You Sun, 07 Dec 2014 07:52:13 +0000 That voice inside my head that says “Just give up, you’ve been trying this shit for the past 8 years, and where are you now? It was a nice run, you gave it your best, but maybe you should just plug back into the matrix. You’ve been ‘this close’ for years, maybe this isn’t meant […]]]> How Not To Empower Women Wed, 05 Nov 2014 20:44:57 +0000 woman-disempower-manThe path to empowering women is not by disempowering men. While many feminist campaigns and viral videos are great at expressing the (superficial) problem, they’re not helping to solve it. The problem is real – there are some men that have no idea how to relate to women, thus proceed to do so in inappropriate ways. […]]]> You Will Not Be Successful Unless… Thu, 09 Oct 2014 03:22:23 +0000 struggle-risk-success-journeyCan we be honest for a second here folks? I know many of you are on a similar path as me, and I just have to take a step back and illustrate how courageous, crazy, and out of our minds we all are. And the truth is, most of us will NOT reach insanely high […]]]> What It’s Like To Be Unwanted Since (Before) Being Born Mon, 25 Aug 2014 23:56:19 +0000 unwanted-be-a-loserHot damn was I fucked up. Where I am at now – compared to where I was a decade ago – is really hitting me. I’m writing my “story” of how I got to be where I am today for my marketing, and am watching the patterns of my life unfold in slow-motion retrospect. Despite […]]]> Is My Reality Really THAT Crazy? Thu, 21 Aug 2014 19:37:44 +0000 reality-worlds-despair-positiveI have always had a problem fitting in, ever since I was 4 years old, whipping it out to take a leak on a tree in the back yard of my preschool. I think ever since then I’ve had problems with authority. Go figure. Now, I live in my own world – not a bubble […]]]> The Killer Was Me (Or, The Only Way To Stop School Shootings) Tue, 03 Jun 2014 04:48:05 +0000 Recently, there was a guy that went on a rampage killing girls at UCSB because they reject him (and men because he was jealous of them). Why? He was a virgin and without friends. He felt lonely, rejected, sad, confused, angry, resentful, and like a victim. To handle it, he developed a righteousness and superiority […]]]> Struggle, Path, Purpose, Challenge, Growth Wed, 26 Feb 2014 02:48:04 +0000 Have you ever struggled in life, and wondered if life was really supposed to be hard? Maybe you’ve also heard how life should be easy and effortless. Wait, huh… what’s the deal? Do we have to struggle, or can life flow smoothly? As my mom would say “make up my mind!” If so, how do […]]]> Why You Compare Yourself To Others (And How To Stop) Mon, 30 Dec 2013 08:24:32 +0000 I will admit it – I have a habit of comparing myself to others. Some of the time it’s against people that are more successful than me, and other times it’s with people less successful than me. But all of the time it makes me feel like shit – like shit for judging them and […]]]> Forget About Success, Just Show Up Sun, 08 Dec 2013 10:35:51 +0000 failure-success-show-up-polymanIt doesn’t matter if you win, get rejected, or get hurt. Life is about showing up. While you’ll never fail if you never try, you’re also guaranteed to never win. Would you bail on working out if your trainer didn’t come? Would you still enjoy a dinner if your date flaked? Would you still make […]]]>