“It is my opinion I’m watching a future best-selling author and spiritual teacher. My [generation] follows people like Chopra, Dyer, Ruiz, and Tolle. Yours may very well follow [people] like him. He appears not just motivated or inspired, but driven to define himself fully on Earth.” –Don Woodruff, Author of “The Kangaroo Method”

I started this blog in 2010, and have ceased writing here in 2014. My writing and perspectives have evolved beyond what you see written on this site, and I have moved on. For posterity’s sake, I have left the site up as there are still many valuable ideas.

Please visit my Medium Blog

 The Polyman is my personal blog where I share my perspectives and nuggets of wisdom I’ve gathered and developed over the past 8 years of my adult life, with the hopes of inspiring and enlightening good men (and even women) around the world. As a teenage designer gone successful entrepreneur, shunned programmer gone inadvertent writer, sickly stick gone glowing man, and dogmatized geek gone remarkable lover – I’ve transformed my life from one of fear, loneliness, disease, depression, and brainwashing to one of love, abundance, sensuality, health, happiness, and freedom from my mental prison. I’m by no means complete, and openly share my struggles in hopes for my own clarity and your benefit.

This site is for you to explore ideas and concepts that are responsible for changing the lives of millions, in hopes that you take what works for you and apply it to you life. From high-level concepts, to metaphor, to step-by-step action-plans, to some in-your-face wake-up calls – my hope is that you can become a better person from my past trials and tribulations, and the ideas that have been cultivated henceforth. If there’s anything you want covered by me, please feel free to get in touch via any one of the plethora of social media connections, and I’d be happy to help.


I help make the best men, better. Of course that can sound a bit trite, however I’m a firm believer in walking my walk so for the past 8 years I’ve been making myself better before publicly making a stand. I want to be an example for others to see that life isn’t about consuming and being trapped in a reality of sickness, depression, and lack of passion – but about creating the life we deserve and taking responsibility for our health and happiness.

If you haven’t already, take the time to watch the video about where I interweave parts of my story of struggle with some thought provoking ideas on how we can overcome disempowering beliefs and cultivate the innate greatness within. I know, I know… it’s about 11 mins long, but if you were expecting some popcorn-superficial-driveby-fluff content on this site, you’ll be highly disappointed. However, if you’d like to make some fluffy popcorn (organic please) and watch a bunch of my videos, hop on over to Polyman TV and make a night of empowerment out of it.

Professional Bio

Drew is an entrepreneur, coach, and published author of “Holistic Sex” on Mindvalley and of the highly-anticipated forthcoming book on sex, “Become A Remarkable Lover”. His popular blog “The Polyman” inspires tens of thousands men per month; a place where he intimately shares personal insights, struggles, and lessons on helping make the best men, better.

While the idea of making himself better proved to be invaluable, it wasn’t until a few years later when he realized the biggest reward was helping to empower others – transforming their limitations to potentials.

In a previous life before all the personal development, Drew was a professional designer and developer for over a decade – where at 18 he started his first 6-figure tech company from scratch with zero dollars and a single idea. During that time he wrote and designed software seen by millions, utilized by thousands of developers, and used to enhance the world’s top brands including Sony Pictures, Samsung, Disney, Square-Enix, Wholefoods, Turner, Acura, Walmart, Discovery Channel, Virgin Media, FEMA, National Science Foundation, Yum! Brands, and BT.

Working non-stop 15 hour days for 2 years behind a computer was hardly glamorous, but it did provide him with an opportunity to backpack in Europe and SE Asia for 6 months, after speaking at an industry conference in England. Upon departure, he sold all of his things, gave his car away, and bought a one-way ticket to London. It was during this time he saw the world through his own eyes and discovered there had to be more to life than sitting behind a computer 16 hours a day. The following few years everything was torn down to a state of self-discovery limbo, and the quest to become something greater began.

Join me on my journey from being an entrepreneur, to a homeless guy showering at the beach, to a best selling author.

What People Are Saying

I love the way you infuse your passion and knowing with confidence and trust.”
–Laurence Marchese

I love this, you DO come out with gems. Just one of the reasons you’re amazing!”
–Hemaxi Chauhan

You are a brave soul. Your vulnerability is so inspirational and transformative for me. Thanks for blazing a trail for this traveler.”
–Phlegan Rush

I will be doing that appreciation exercise every day! Thanks so much! I greatly appreciate all that you do and everything of yours that I’ve read or watched! You are so inspiring!”
–Nyssa Woznicki

Awesome! Sex God!”
–Caitlin Grace

Your words reveal how strong connection you have with the intelligence of the universe. So grateful to get confirmation of this beautiful level from you.”
–Camilla Karlsson

Brilliant. More women need to read this!” [In response to my book passage]
–Crystal Hayward

Bro… this is brilliant!”
–Jan Federico William Bird

…making self improvement look damn good.”
–Jessica Attolini

Dude you are an amazingly deep person. I’m grateful I got to know you.”
–Mike Blakeslee

You are talking like GOD… please don’t shut up!”
–Nicole Abundance

If you want to check out some video testimonials, all by real people, you can do so here.

Connect With Me


If you’re looking to get to know me on a more social level (well, internet style) then feel free to friend, follow, and connect with me now on any of the major social networks. While my private life is well, private, you can keep up to date with all the stuff I’m working on and all the inspirational posts I share – and I can get to know you and how I can help you overcome your challenges on your quest to become the best that you can be.

Of course you can always give me a call to work together one-on-one. I go in depth on what that’s like, and just like when you signup to become a Polyman Member, what you can expect from me ahead of time. So just hop on over to my coaching page for my number and some more deets here.