Demand And It Is Given

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You have the power to have anything you want in the world, you just need to ask and it will be given.

There’s tremen­dous power in asking for what you want. Those that don’t ever ask for what they want, stand 0% chance of getting it. You ask with words, thoughts, intent, emotion, and focus. You get what you ask to get, and you also get what you ask to not get. You get what you focus on, so focus on what you want.

Most people don’t bother asking because they don’t believe they will even get it. Rejecting them­selves isn’t nearly as bad as being rejected by some­body else… And how better to avoid that feeling of rejec­tion than to not even bother? The truth is, you’d be amazed at how often you get things simply by asking for those same things others didn’t believed they could get — a la free upgrades and discounts Tim Ferriss style.

Here’s where I feel people need to stop being so humble and meek. We’ve been taught and trained by reli­gions and govern­ments to stay in our place and that desire is shameful… All while they live in lavish mate­ri­alism or spir­i­tual haugh­ti­ness? Bullshit. We are all powerful creators of our own reality, and when we are aligned with our true desires, we are just as enti­tled to them as anyone else, and they, by Law of Attraction, must come to us in the highest good for all. When we are happy, we only want good things, so why shouldn’t we be allowed to get them?

What I’m wanting you to realize, is that when people “ask” for what they want, they, well, ask. And inher­ently with asking, often implies seeking permis­sion or approval of the request. Listen to this care­fully: you are worthy of anything you ask for simply because of who you are. You don’t need anyone’s permis­sion or accep­tance to say what you desire is okay to be granted to you. Also, often presup­posed by asking, is a possi­bility of denial. The universe, cashier, attrac­tive lady, parent, etc., can say “no”. You go from a purely 0% chance, to a 0–99% chance. Leaps and bounds better than not asking though, don’t get me wrong.

But there’s a 3^rd option: demanding. Demanding with expectance. 100% guaranteed.

Imagine a thirsty king. He desires a drink. He has an entire kingdom of wonderful abun­dance at his disposal. Is he going to say to himself “I’m thirsty but I don’t think anyone will offer me water because I’m not good enough”? Or worse, imagine him getting on his knees to his servant and saying “please, pretty please I’m so desperate for water, could you grace me with your generosity and share some drink with me?”

A mighty king?! Outrageous!

He simply tells his servant to get him some water. Is he rude about it? No. Does he look down upon the fetcher? No. Does he appre­ciate the aide and abun­dance? Yes. He’s not bossy or arro­gant; he simply BELIEVES and under­stands it’s going to be given to him. That know­ing­ness and worthi­ness comes before anything can be given.

There’s a scene in Pulp Fiction that comes to mind where they’re cleaning the car of exploded head guts, and John Travolta’s char­acter asks a very high status and effi­cient person who’s doing them a favor on short notice to be more polite in telling them to do some­thing. Paraphrasing, he responds: “Please, with fucking cher­ries on top, clean the fucking car.”

Anyways, I’m not saying to go around demanding things like you own the world; it’s not the language of demanding vs asking — it’s the mindset. Asking (politely and with appre­ci­a­tion) and expecting it will happen because you deserve it, is what I mean when I say demand. Expecting things will come, knowing you deserve what­ever you want in life. As they say: “deserve what you want”.

You want a raise? Demand it. You want the most sexy super­model girl­friend that will do wild and crazy things with you? Demand it. If you’re not at the place where you can demand to the world what you want, you need to learn, unlearn, change, and/or do what­ever it takes to get your beliefs, emotions, abil­i­ties, and mindset in the place where that kind of expectancy comes natu­rally. It is possible for any area of life, but it can take work and time.

A king knows his kingdom provides for him just as he provides for his kingdom. Neither doubt the exis­tence or value of the other. So then why do you beg and ask with doubt and approval-seeking for your desires to be granted by some­body else that holds the power to your happi­ness? You are the king and queens of your real­i­ties, start acting like it! Demand and it is given. Choose happi­ness now.